Hesitant Generosity?
“Sure, I’d like to help. Let me know after you have run your campaign or project, and what you still need, and then I’ll step in.” I think that it is very common for people involved in planning and running community programs to hear this. People like to be a “knight in shining armor” and to come in and save the day when there is something missing. It sounds wonderful, but is it the right thing to do? Is that better than the person who steps up to help as soon as they see a need, not knowing how crucial their support will be and how many others are willing to help? Well the leaders of our people, in the early days of the formation of the nation, took the first approach. Hashem told Moshe to build a sanctuary in the desert, and to have all the people contribute the materials necessary. As related in this week’s Parsha, Vayakhel, the leaders of the tribes, holy people wanting to behave like leaders, decided to allow the people to bring what ...