A Sincere Kiss?
It was a very moving and beautiful moment. Two brothers who had been estranged for a long time meet after 35 years. There was great tension and fear in anticipation of this meeting. Yaakov had hoped that Esav had forgiven him for “stealing” the blessings, which were actually rightfully Yaakov’s, and had sent him messengers of peace. He was warned that Esav was coming toward him with 400 warriors to fight. Yaakov prepared himself in many ways, dividing the camp, praying and sending lavish gifts to appease Esav. As the Torah says, Yaakiv was afraid and distressed - afraid that he might be killed and distressed that he might be forced to kill. Because even though it would be in self-defense and he should be fully justified, Jewish nature is such that we are distressed when we have to kill our enemies. This all followed on the heels of Yaakov’s fight with Esav’s guardian angel, from which he emerged with a wound in his sciatic nerve. We can imagine ...